I don't see any downside and sanction for not making the change.

My ex-mother in-law/ she married my father/ they got divorced/ my father died (she) has managed to steel my fathers inherritanc

If she married your father, she is your step-mother - not your mother-in-law - and she had no legal obligation to support you.

After trial and giving his tennative in a California civi case, whatl time constraints on judge submitting his final ruling?

I believe the time limit is 90 days.

How can I get my name off timeshare as co owner?

I would guess your only option is to sell the timeshare.

I have to file an amended contempt of court for child support..what do i need to show evidence of to show negligence?

Showing negligence won't get you a finding of contempt; it has to be willful. Take your documents to the self-help clinic at your local courthoue...

What do I do when a restraining order has been filed against me in a state that I don't even live in?

Mother can appear by telephone (probably) through courtcall.com or hire an attorney to appear for her, and contend that CA doesn't have jurisdiction.

What is the standard child custody schedule? if the father doesn't agree what can JCC do?

Actually, for shared custody, it's usually either alternate weeks or 2-2-3. That's really the only choices except the 2-2-5-5 which I find confusing.

Can my wife seek child support for leaving me for another man?

Divorce is 'no fault' everywhere in the US now, so your obligation to support your child continues regardless of the moralty of the child's mother.

Both are 17 while pregnant and the father turned 18 weeks after the baby was born will that be a problem ?

I'm guessing here - but I would think that if you're worried about criminal penalties because he is now an adult, I think that he would have to...

What is support-decision based on ?

It is usually based on current income but basis will vary despending specific factors in each case. It doesn't need to be updated after divorce is...