Can you request overpaid childsupport in a divorce case? can 14-15yr olds have their own say which parent they wanna live with?

You can do this only in very narrow circumstances in which you have full custody; in your case, you will have to request an official modification...

Can I sue if my spouse made a baby with someone else while we're married and living together?

No - divorce is granted on a "no fault" basis for every state in the country.

Is it a violation of my 1st amendment right for family court judge to order me not to post about my case on social media?

Possibly - although it would be remote; there are time & manner exceptions to your right to speak so as long as the ordered restriction is related...

I have no knowledge of Illinois but if you children live in California, California is the only state that would have jurisdiction over child...

How long do I have to pay alimony?

Until you - and hopefully the judge - can convince her to get a job, or she marries or dies! Hopefully you have a Gavron Warning in your Judgment...

I would like to know if I am eligible to be emancipated.

I agree with Atty Marshall, but ... here's a link with the info (and when you have a question, google...

How to avoid disclosing address in summary of dissolution CA?

I am unaware of any prohibition against listing only your maililng address on your documents (and for an initial document, there would be no filing...

If my ex and I decide on a new child support payment when one of our kids turns 18 do I need to have a lawyer handle that?

You only need to involve the courts to the extent that you file a Stipulation and Order formalizing the new agreement for child support. Here is a...

Can you win a custody battle if you have been arrested for domestic violence?

There is a Family Code 3044 presumption against it but that presumption can be rebutted with assigned anger management classes, parenting classes,...

Does timesharing the kids before filing for dissolution means divorce is happening?

If you don't live together, you do have to reach agreement as to how the share resonsibilities for the children; otherwise, it may be.