Do I owe my ex $14k if his car payoff amount was $28k, when it was totaled and I paid half monthly? Insurance is paying it off.

No, but bless his heart for trying. Presumably, the other driver's insurance company is paying off the car.

Sounds like your ex is monitoring the phone calls. File a RFO to modify visitation so that calls are unmonitored.

If my husband is hiding money how will I get spousal support?

Two recommendations, maybe three: 1. Retain a private investigator to do asset searches. 2. Retain a forensic accountant to analyze...

I'm the primary parent, is what I am ordered to pay for my ex's visitation right since it's higher than child support?

It is against public policy for a judge to award custody based solely on a parent's wealth (or lack thereof). Did you move to SoCal from...

What am I entitled to in divorce settlement?

Unfortunately, I don't think any family law attorney will be able to give you a definitive answer without knowing a lot more facts such as: -...

Is it advisable to do minor changes to the joint property before filing for divorce/separation?

When you say the expenses will be "out of my husband's pocket" so long as you haven't separated yet then the money in his pocket is community...

I also recommend hiring a private investigator to do a public records search.

What do I file to contest an FAOH which was filed and signed by a judge without my objections?

You will probably need to file a Request for Order to set aside the FOAH under C.C.P. Section 473. I recommend you retain an experienced family...

Does he let you know in advance about the weekend visits he didn't plan on exercising? You can file a Request for Order to modify visitation...

What you're asking will only be known by family law attorneys who practice in your courthouse in front of your judge, or the courtroom clerk or...