Notice of intent to terminate asylum status

You need to consult with an attorney you can review your entire file and give you advice based on the file.

Is it okay to travel to my country while waiting?

In your situation, it is risk to travel on your Advance Parole. My advice is to wait until you get your AOS result.

What can I do if I sent my application for DACA renewal and still haven't heard back?

If you have an I-797 Notice of Action, that should be fine as proof of work permit until you get a new one.

Nvc?

At minimum 30 days and it all depends on which consulate will handle your case and what their waiting time is.

Green card through employment for a spouse?

You must remain married until the final adjudication of your I-485. Once approved, it should not affect your case.

If the RFE was about I-864, that should not affect your normal processing times for the EAD which is now 6-8 months.

Birth certificate?

It depends on what category you are applying under. You can always write in your cover letter that have ordered it and will supplement USCIS.

You should give them at least 30 days. Vermont is very slow. Also, do you have a tracking number?

What forms do I need to fill out for my wife

It depends on if she continues to reside outside of the US and do consular processing or come here and file it. You should do a consultation with...

Can I -730 derivative asylee petiitoners apply for EAD card after 180 days of filing it?

No, you have to wait until the I-730 is approved first.