How can she protect her assets? What does she need to do to make sure all assets go to her kids, and none to her boyfriend?

She needs to sit down in person and in private with an Estate Planning / Asset Protection Attorney to get specific advice. Second she could enter...

The answer lies within state law. Have an Estate Attorney review the documents carefully and guide you as to whether or not the child can be...

What are my mothers options

Get an Elder Law attorney involved to help smooth the way. See Avvo.com under 'Find-A-Lawyer' then enter 'Elder Law' and the City & State where the...

Can simple changes to Trusts be safely done without a lawyer?

This would involve a straight-forward (but legally done) AMENDMENT to the Trust instrument. You cannot just write in the percentage change from...

Is the will valid? how do I proceed? Also what should we do with the bonds? Can I just keep them or are they part of his estate

Sound advice. Sit down with an Estate Planning / Probate attorney for an in-person consultation. Then proceed to file the necessary paperwork to...

What is our next recourse my mom is 92.

I concur completely. Arrange for a sit-down in-person consultation with a local Estate / Elder Law attorney. See Avvo.com under the tab marked...

What is the technical mechanism (verbs? convey, grant, distribute, sell, transfer?) by which trust assets are decanted?

First determine whether your State has adopted a Decanting statute. Then if it has, have the new Trust prepared by an experienced Estate Planning...

How can I obtain guardianship without the mother losing custody. We are looking to do co parenting.

This can be resolved with a Shared Custody Agreement. See Avvo.com under 'Find-A-Lawyer'. Then enter Family Law and the City and State where the...

How can my mother or his siblings obtain the knowledge or rights to obtain his business and properties that he own or shared?

Time to sit down in person in the office for a private consultation with an Estate Attorney. If your mother is still married and not divorce from...

Will a living will be good enough, or a wraparound mortgage,

No. You have the Living Will and the Living Trust confused. A so-called Living Will is also known as the Advanced Health Care Directive, which...