Doesn't being named administrator give me the power for his trust if he died intestate?

My colleagues are correct. The Trust is the 'centerpiece' document - and likely the Citibank account cites the name and date of the Trust. So...

What legal steps can i take to force his hand to show me the trust?

My colleagues are both legally correct. However, your Estate attorney could probably help ease the way by anticipating the need for both of you to...

How do I find a lawyer who can help, He said his mother told his younger brother that they will never see me again.

See Avvo.com under the link entitled 'Find-A-Lawyer'. I hope this works out for you and your grandchildren. Good Luck to you.

Do I have a case to go after the family's estate for the property

Sit down in person with an experienced Estate Planning / Probate attorney who can give you fact-specific advice in this situation. I hope it works...

Do we need an accounting to settle the estate, and is this a legal move since she already signed of on the accounting .

The Trustee has a fiduciary duty of loyalty and honest with the Beneficiaries of a Trust. Have your attorney accelerate the calendar for hearing...

It is normally done by a 'Substitution of Attorney'. The outgoing attorney should brief the incoming attorney in a perfect world but in an...

Can you provide for any future mother of your future child in a trust? (just like providing for any future children in a trust?)

Beneficiaries need to be identified either by a class or individually. I'd recommend a sit-down in person with an Estate Planning / trust attorney...

Is there any legal avenue she could take for help if we paid for an attorney for her. Anything would help her get an apartment.

This once again proves just how important it is to put one's wishes in writing in the form of a Will or Trust. That way those left behind aren't...

What are administrator's options in order to close estate that heirs do not agree with?

You can petition the Court to take steps to order a full fiduciary accounting. That would be a smart place to start and possibly end with a Court...

When a personal representative is withdrawing, can the remaining siblings change the locks to secure the belongs of the estate?

As usual, Attorney Pippen hit the nail squarely on the head both with the legal answer and the non-legal answer. Follow his advice - righ t away.