Since the actual facts and circumstances are not adequately covered in your question, I'd agree with my colleague. I'd suggest you Retain Counsel...

How can i get my trustee to do her job?

Have your attorney file a Motion in the Probate Court of the County where the case arises. You need to enforce your rights.

My sister was told by my mom that everything was left to me and my sister broke in my moms room, stole all documents, deleted my

I concur. This is a police matter first. So have Mom sign a police report, then proceed with the Elder Law issues afterwards. I'd also suggest...

How much does it cost to remove two deceased names from a deed and add another?

The answer will depend heavily on HOW the Title is held. I'd proceed in the State of Maryland since that is where the physical property is...

Crafting a legally competent Will is straightforward and relatively easy to do. Have your mom sit down with a competent Estate Planning attorney. ...

I concur. A beneficiary has a right to an accounting as to the Trust investments and distributions. Please note: it is not 'your money' until it...

Yes of course. As Grantors of the Trust you have the right to name anyone you wish as a Beneficiary (or to Remove them). Have your Attorney draft...

Can a lawyer make you sign off or withdraw as guardian of property of minors that are now adults?

Guardianship normally ends in any state when the minor child reached as legal age of adulthood. In most states that is either 18 or 21 years of...

What can I do with an court order requiring me to place social security funds in a trust for my daughters by their grandparents?

Hmm. Seems to be a compllcation here. Why are the children entitled to a Grandparent's Social Security benefits? Normally, benefits of a deceased...

I had valuable personal property stolen from my parents and my older sister's estates by my younger sister.

The court which has Jurisdiction over the two Estates would be the County in which the deceased was residing at the time of death, so I'd start by...