Can father of child change her last name after 2 years?

No. You would be able to contest and withhold consent.

Which lease is binding?

Since they just signed the monthly lease on Tuesday, that would be the lease that controls their current situation.

Settle conference in a divorce?

Agreed. If you both cannot agree, then the court will move forward in establishing dates and deadlines towards trial. Yes, you can both still try...

Yes, you should file under the same case and in the same court for this situation.

Can I legally change the locks to my house to keep grandkids out?

He can initiate eviction proceedings against them by serving 5-day "tenancy at will" eviction notices and then eventually getting eviction orders...

If the whole eviction process led to the sheriffs locking you out; if you come up with the money after the lock out can you mov?

Only if the landlord agrees to let you back in to resume the lease (or start anew).

Not married to the father but the father is on the birth certificate, who has custody?

Depends on whether you want a more formal order in place. The law would presume you share joint legal and physical custody, but if no court order...

How long how long does a landlord have to wait to dispose of items left behind and do the tenents have to be notified before?

The landlord has to hold onto items at least 30 days and send you a 14-day written notice (to last known address or new address) before disposing...

Can my Lanlord charge me for carpet cleaning when they replaced the carpet.

If they ended up replacing the carpets, then no, you shouldn't have been charged for cleaning them first, unless a subsequent tenant occupied the...

Can my apt manager evict met to ger even ?

She would need a legal reason to evict you. Otherwise, you can contest any attempt to evict in court.