Would my fiance be able to fix me papers quickly if i am under 21

Nothing can be done quickly. A fiance of a resident cannot get petitioned.

You may have a problem, a serious problem. Go seek legal help right away.

If someone is gettting married to obtain documentation is it better to get married to an ex or a friend willing to help?

A crime is a crime. Enough said.

My husband has been deported twice and is now in mexico we have two kids and we are u.s.citizens is he able to be a resident

Your husband has a very long wait. He will be lucky if the govt does not prosecute him and put him in prison.

My boyfriend has a ice hold on him and we have been together 4 yrs but not married is there anything i can do?????

Get him out of jail would be the place to start.

Is it possible to legalize emigration status with out having to leave the us?

Possible for some people yes, for you I cannot tell from the info you posted. Go speak with a lawyer.

Can I marry my same sex partner if I am in the process of becoming a US citizen?

Sure you can.

I'm confused, what will I do?

My friend, you cannot afford to commit crimes in the United States. You need to behave properly or you should go to your country and commit crimes.

My husband is in a California State Prison. He is facing deportation upon release. Can our marriage help?

Prison usually means deportation for most. Go find an immigration lawyer to consult with.

WHATS THE STATUS ON THIS CASE: HOLD - Rel Dt/Tm: Agency: ICE, 11359 HS

Never. He will be deported.