My grandmother is coming to visit and imigration wants proof of support I'm a housewife can my husband complete the I-134 form

Use the I-134. The other form is for immigrants coming in.

How long do i have to wait to fix my husband's papers?

6 months or less once the case is filed.

Once the BIA receives my appeal, how soon do they tell me when to submit the brief?

It depends on the type of case. Some cases are reviewed within 6 months and others can take years. Have you spoken to your lawyer about this?

Hire an immigration lawyer, get him out of jail. The deportation may come but maybe you can buy some time.

Hi i got yellow letter may 14 how long i have waite for interview i m in sf

You must answer the rfe before they will schedule you for an interview.

Can I sue the one who filed for an affidavit of support for me before I got my green card due to abandonment and divorce?

You cannot sue based on the affidavit of support. You should have asked for everything during the divorce. Sorry.

I got my I539 (change of status) approved, Can I travel out side of United States, how do I get my passport stamped?

If you leave, you must reapply for the visa outside the US to get stamped. You do take a risk though.

Will my mother's visa status affect my sister on getting a tourist visa to the US?

It may have an effect.

Will my wife be reported by her probation Officer to INS

Unlikely since the Reckless is not a basis for deportation.

When a illegal immigrant says he is married at an interview and immigration finds out later they were not is that fraud

It is hard to tell.