I overstayed 8 months on my vwp, is there any ways to reenter usa?

You may not be entering the US for a long time. Chances of a visa under these circumstances are slim.

The system does not have any information about my next hearing date

I agree, call the court where the motion was filed to see if it was granted.

DV1 "husband" out of US while DV2"wife" & DV3"kids" are living a stable life in states, any impact on citizenship application?

For you, no.

How do withdraw my application and what is my next option this case?

Yes, send the goverm,ment a withdraw letter with case numbers.

How is the 30 day period for filing an appeal figured based on a real calendar?

I agree

What do i need to do to live and work in the usa and what are fees

If you marry that is one possibility. If you find employment and obtain a working visa that is another possibility.

Can I re-enter the US as a tourist after being in H-1B status? For how long can I visit?

Its possible but you can be delayed and have your entry deferred.

You can be sent to court for deportation now if you have no legal status at this time.

Am I eligible do get green card?

Possible, Mr. Shusterman is correct.

Can I join the National Guard with a work permit

No