How long will my boyfriend be in prison for ?

I could answer your question more accurately, but I'd need more information. So here's my best estimate based on the information you did...

The other answers are right, police can break the door down in that scenario. But I would add, whoever this person is should call a criminal...

Can my probation officer talk hypothetically about hanging me to death?

Based on what you have described, it sounds like the PO is a bully. But I doubt he would admit he said those things to you in court or anywhere...

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A criminal domestic violence charge was filed but no warrant issued or summons delivered.

Some of your questions are difficult to answer specifically because you might not be using certain terms precisely. You write that a "charge was...