In removal proceedings in the time of pleadings she should identify the country of removal. Judge will most likely agree.

Get another certification on the form I-918 Supplement B and refile. Also file FOIA request for your file, use G-639 form.

You won your case already, now it is a matter of couple of years to get it in the proper formal way.

If you filed your asylum application while in status, it is a case analogues to Matter of Orban. I posted a legal guide in my avvo profile on AOS...

Engage an immigration attorney. There may be a complaint against a person with the same name as yours.

The SSN is one for life. When you get your Lawful Permanent Resident status, then you may get the SSN card without any notes.

The USCIS status reporting system is unreliable. Why does it say approved, then something else? Because it is somewhat not working well.

Consult with an immigration attorney that has experience in arguing matter of Orban to excuse technical failure to maintain non-immigrant status.

Privet! Did you file I-589 with the court?

Your child will not be barred from a green card because the child's step parent is a uS citizen.