This is definitely an anomalous development. Engage an immigration lawyer.

No. Meet in person in her or the third country.

Yes. Here is how - https://www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/marriage-based-immigration-timing-of-filings-avoiding-an-i-130-interview

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Asylee is a foreign national who was granted Asylum. Apply for a Refugee Travel Document by filing the form I-131.

Depends on what you were convicted for. Unless you are a convict for a sex crime against a child, may petition your husband for immigration. Here...

It is common for USCIS online report not to reflect the actual case status.

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