"...but I should be in regular removal proceedings, no?" This question is best to be answered by the lawyer that filed your asylum application...

No, because your removal is stayed while the BIA appeal is pending, as there is no FINAL order. Wanna win, hire a lawyer.

Such delays are common. The fireign spouse may apply for Re-Entry Permit and so get the official document that this person is an LPR.

Yes, they will start fraud investigation. You were not expected to be a burden on the society. Get a lawyer.

Wait a few more days. The public electronic record does displays a filing of appeal with some delay.

No, do not consolidate. If you do not have lawyers, run and hire lawyers that won asylum FROM YOUR COUNTRIES.

You have not mention any circumstance that would make you eligible to apply for asylum in the United States. Consider United Kingdom, the asylum...

What you want is to hold in abeyance the appeal until USCIS adjudicates your I-360. Hard to get. One of the apparent approaches to get what you...

Find an immigration lawyer that prevaile in ( at least one) Convention Against Torture claim and obtain a confidential consultation. I-130 is...

You did not prohide the piece of information necessary to guide you - the date of your entry. If you entered in the era of the mandatory CBP1 app...