Why do lawyers in my area say I'm screwed out of my ex's 401k because the judge ordered it, but was never told I needed a qudro?

It is impossible for us to guess, unfortunately. Whomever you spoke with could be applying equitable defenses such as estoppel, waiver, or laches....

In TUCSON arizona a divorce ?

It is unclear if you have a specific question. You may want to take advantage of a free consultation with a local divorce attorney. It sounds like...

Why are several police officers at my house to serve me. Isnt it typically a server not officers?

I think you answered your own question—she reported you owned firearms so the officer who served the OOP probably requested backup.

If my divorce decree says he has to be update on child support and i let him claim anyways can i get in trouble?

No, but you would waive the right to enforce this specific tax year in the future.

Yes, unless it rises to the level of child abuse or there’s a court order to restrict corporal punishment or the adults who can administer it.

How can I assure spousal maintenance payments are in a timely manner?

Spousal maintenance should be deducted before he’s paid. If your ex is periodically earning too little to withhold the entire amount, you may have...

What are my rights when I’ve been living with my boyfriend in his home rent free for 5-months and now he wants me out?

Probably none, unfortunately. But I’ve recategorized this to landlord-tenant law in case your facts support some type of implied month-to-month...

What needs to be filed to reauest a modification of spousal maintance?

A petition to modify, you should be able to find a form at the Superior Court website or you can contact a family lawyer for a free consultation....

Should I file a motion for clarification or for modification?

We have no way to know if you're eligible to modify based on the information you provided. Traditionally, the language you refer to is interpreted...

What is the best way to collect back child support?

The answer probably depends on the viability of traditional collection methods. Attorneys are pretty limited, DCSS has several more remedies...