When the court awards attorney fees to be paid by one party to the other, how is that suppose to be honored?

The attorneys fees are reimbursed to you. I have a difficult time believing your lawyer really is telling you otherwise. I would ask him to explain...

I lived with a man for about 10 years and during that time we had a child together who is now nearing 9 years old .

If you held yourself out as a couple, you do have some remedies under Arizona law. You should contact an attorney right away.

Where do I look for a malpractice lawyer in phoenix az

The AVVO search tool is a good resource.

Can I sue the Arizona D.O.C if I was held 5 months past my sentence expiration date?

You should certainly contact an attorney. Be advised that a notice of claim needs to be served within 180 days of the occurrence so act right away.

Without more information it is difficult to know. The cost depends upon how much work is needed. You should be able to find an affordable attorney...

Minor car accident/left the scene of an accident

You should contact an attorney right away.

Imputing income to the person who RECEIVES the child support and alimony.

Income can be imputed to either party for a host of reasons. I've had a number of cases in this regard, including imputing income to a contractor...

Negligent prenatal care

It sounds as if your son's issues are genetic and not the result of any malpractice. This case likely is only viable as one for "wrongful birth,"...

My son has a mental delay disability and was on a school trip to the pool was left unattended and nearly drown due to negligence

You need to speak with an attorney about this incident. Your son very well could have a claim against the school or the pool facility, or both. ...

What should we do?

Given what is at stake, you really should hire an attorney. The question you ask cannot be addressed adequately here.