Do I have any legal options as to them calling my current company and saying that they had a problem with me in the past.

I agree that your question leaves out enough detail to give you much direction. Causes of action to explore would include intentional interference...

My husband is in UT, his ex is in CA (where they filed their divorce). What is the best way to change the custody terms?

You will need a California licensed attorney, as that is where jurisdiction lies for his case.

In Utah, does one have to petition to be removed from the SOR or after the specified length of time am I automatically removed?

When you move to Utah, your SOR comes with you. That is, if you are a life registry in the state you are leaving, you will be a life on the...

You never mention your alcohol level, your BAC reading. If you were below 0.08 alcohol or you were negative for any drugs in a blood test, you have...

When I meet with this officer do I have to tell him anything or should I have a lawyer present?

Never talk to the police. Don't do another thing without consulting with an attorney.

Should I fight this? How should I proceed?

My guess is the officer was trolling for DUIs and pulled you over for the minor violation. You didn't get arrested for DUI or anything more serious...

Sixth Amendment to the United States Constitution guarantees the right to face your accuser in court.

This is a catch-all kind of citation when there is an accident in winter driving conditions. Fight it if you have the time.

What skillful wording may get me off the hook on this one, if any. Particularly with post office

Criminal mischief means intentionally damaging the property of another. The skillful wording of a lawyer may get you a plea in abeyance on this...

Will I have charges pressed against me, or be sent to prison?

If she or her parents decide to falsely accuse you of rape, then you would be in trouble. If some school counselor learns about this and your age...