There are not laws that say only an attorney can draft or change provisions within a will. However, hiring an attorney will give you peace of mind...

I don't know why you say don't have a choice but to be pro se. If you have as good of a claim as you are stating you do then an attorney would...

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Sounds like a great question for an attorney licensed in Virginia. See Virginia Code Section 20-48 and 20-49.

Is a will wrote on paper and noterized legal

Wills law is state specific and so you will want to check out the law in the state you mother lives. In many states a will needs to be signed by...