Am i entitled to a portion of my ex-husband's retirement if it was not included in the divorce decree?

It depends on whether the decree said anything at all about the retirement, it might have been awarded to him. Also, you were divorced in 2005, and...

Can someone who takes out a restraining order on me violate their own order?

As you say, the restraining order is against you. It is not against her. As such, there is nothing for her to violate. You really need to get...

You fail to state who is who, and what your business is in the entire situation. You claim a person is in hospital care, but fail to say if the...

Can some one (female) use a different last name if she is married, on checks and some other legal stuff

In general, if that is the surname she kept from the divorce, and she decided to not take her new husband's surname, then yes she can.

Attorney sent QUARTRO after my divorce, ex receieved 1/2 of my medical federal retirement in which we both filed QUARTRO'S 4 yrs

First, did the divorce award you a portion of his retirement? Second, did your attorney file a QDRO on his retirement? If yes, then you need to...

How can you get a protective order removed?

You simply need to get with an experienced criminal defense attorney immediately if what you say is true.

How old the children n they petition the parents?

I do not see that you are asking a question here. Plus, more detail would be helpful

How long can a judge postpone your case?

That all depends on the judge and the parties. Cases are often continued at the request of the parties, to adequately prepare for any hearing or...

If my husband adopts my child can my ex still have visitation?

Generally your ex's rights terminate. He has no claim to the child. You need to consult with an experience local family law attorney on this.

What is the proper course of actions?

You need to consult with an experience local family law attorney on this. Perhaps your family can help you with the financial end of hiring an...