Yes, you could be held in contempt. Where is your attorney in all of this? Not having an attorney is a big mistake in a custody dispute....

Can my moms ex adopt me if she cant take care of me?

Arguably he could, but it may be easier if he filed to be your legal guardian.

If you have not obtained a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) that is where you need to start. How long it takes depends on the retirement...

In my opinion, no you should not use ORS because that entity will not address custody or parent-time. Instead, you need to get with a good attorney...

If the settlor has died and you have not been listed as a trustee then you are in a real mess and it is dubious that you can be listed as such...

Based on what you say, no one can actually answer your questions. Has the actual order been drafted? Has it been signed? Do you have the minute...

You can raise that as a defense, but to change the orders you need to file a petition to modify the support obligation -- you cannot modify orders...

How do we proceed with a cease and desist and Libel claim?

You get with an experienced and aggressive attorney who has experience in these matters.

In Utah if you file court to appoint personal representative informal probate do you need to include a copy of the living trust

If the transfer was not made before the death, then there is nothing you can do about it now. You really should get with an experienced probate...

This is part of why you should hire an attorney to help you. Without knowing when things happened and the various deadlines associated with your...