What type of action can I take if any?

You need to get with an experienced family law attorney to see if you can modify the visitation to address all of your issues.

I have been in a mental abusive marriage for 8 yrs. My husband controls ever thing..he has close to 500,ooo dollars in savings ?

Your question goes beyond the scope of this forum. You really need to get with an experienced family law attorney to review all of your rights and...

How do i divorce my wife if i dont know where she is/she wont accept the divorce papers?

Get with an experienced family law attorney to review your options for alternate forms of service.

Can I speak to the judge to see if I can get my case dismissed ?

Probably not. The best thing you can do is get with an experienced family law attorney to review your facts and documents.

Child's father outright lied to the judge at the the beginning of proceedings and has led to bias against me. Perjury?

You say you have an attorney. You need to be discussing this with your attorney to look at your options.

How can I find my baby?

First call the police. Second, get with an experienced family law attorney to file an action to determine custody, visitation and child support.

I was given a subpeona for a ciminal case Reguarding domestic violence do i need to show up if i want the no contact ord. Droppe

You have been subpoenaed in a criminal case. If you fail to appear you could be held in contempt of court yourself.

You don't say what you are attempting to modify, so one cannot really help you out here. In almost every modification, if one side refuses to...

Is there ANY way to talk to the Judge in Private, in a high conflict, custody case (especially where abuse is involved)?

In general - no. From what you say, you have a high-conflict custody case, and you don't have an attorney. That is a big mistake in a custody...

My sibling took ALL items of personal property from my mothers home. As P.R. can I ask her to pay for the items??

If you have been court appointed to be the personal representative it is your duty to require that she return the property, or pay to the estate...