Ex husband is refusing to abide by the divorce decree and is harassing me?

This is a common problem, particularly if you went with the "joint custody" situation. A detailed review of your custody orders is required, but...

Can they bring charges on the parents if they give up to the grandmother custody or adoption

Yes. DCFS will have control as to where the children are placed and the parents can be "charged".

How do you reinstate parental rights for a military person?

It all depends on what you mean "signed away his rights". Did the court actually termination is rights? Not having an attorney is a big mistake...

I have legal issues? the mother to my child does to. shes getting married. i wont terminate my rights

You fight back against the adoption! Not having an attorney is a big mistake in a custody dispute. There are preferences for "joint custody"...

How can I establish paternity and claim my rights as my daughter's father without her mother's consent? she is abusive and cruel

You do not need her permission to file a paternity petition. You just need to get moving on it, like right now! Sure, you might be in for a...

In general, yes -- even if you don't have joint custody. I'd need to review your decree. The best thing you can do is get with an...

What legal action can we take against someone making non violent threats?

You could try to file for a civil restraining order against her. The best thing you can do is get with an experienced family law attorney who...

Do I have to pay a medical bill for my ex if I never took responsibility & the divorce states only person named is responsible?

It depends on when it was incurred, what it is for, and the terms of your divorce decree. If it was assigned to your ex, then you should have...

Can I change my son's last and middle name to whatever I want is biological father is in prison for life and I don't want my son

You can try, but you need to give notice to the father. If he agrees, then you have a relatively simple case. If he doesn't, then you have a fight.

Can the HOA legally tow my car when the owner of the parking spot has given us permission?

Sounds like you might have a case, but the CC&R would need to be reviewed in detail.