Can my father legally take my vape away from me and start using it as his own?

You are 13 years old. You own nothing. Keep that in mind and be grateful for what your parents do for you.

Drug oui chances

Stop taking whatever it is your taking, and re-write the question. Your post doesn't make much sense.

What should we do or say tomorrow

Like I told you when you called, you need to hire an attorney in Idaho to handle the parole revocation. Keeping him from going back to prison is...

What can I do about it

You need to go to the police and report what happened. The police will then do a follow up with your employer in an attempt to ascertain what took...

What will happen to my son and/or myself if I tell them no I don't want him doing all this other stuff?

I agree this sounds excessive. You need to hire an attorney to review the disciplinary actions that were taken against your son to see if anything...

How long is Juvinile Hall??

Going to juvenile hall because you want to "see what happens" is a really stupid idea. Do you plan on going to prison someday just to check it out?

Is it against my daughter's rights as a victim to be placed under the care of my parents?

Is there another place your daughter can stay? You need to hire an attorney who will help you explore your options.

What exactly were you charged with? From what you have posted, this will not be an easy case to win.

Will I face any trouble?

It sounds like you just got a warning which will not go on your driving record. If the officer tries to speak to you again, hire an attorney and DO...

Do police have the right to talk to a minor without parents present

It depends on the age of the minor. Usually if they are over 15 the can talk to them without a parent being present. You need to hire a lawyer to...