Can primary custody parent take my child to CA from n.c. due to military move without my consent?

Depends on what the current custody order says and what the current state of residence for the kids is. Usually an out of state move with kids...

Can my husband change my military education benefits before our divorce is final?

Yes, he can. Once you are divorced, you are no longer his "dependent." The GI Bill is his benefit to do with as he pleases. Try to negotiate...

Unless he was served with a court order that prohibited him from changing his beneficiary, it's completely legal.

My son contacted als after serving in Afghanistan now at 26 he passed away it’s not in my family history and heard this is commo

Whoever is in charge of your son's estate should file a claim with the VA.

The combination of alcohol and cocaine is very bad, and is likely the reason you don't remember how it happened. Doubtful the discharge itself...

How can I get out of National Guard BCT ?

You can't. You made a commitment. Honor it.

Can a marine m.p /ncis /c.i.d violate my civil rights and tap into my computer and get my home mortages /ssn/work schedule?

If they are policing in Yuma, AZ, then they aren't stalking you in Mexico.

In what year did the US start letting non US citizens join the military?

This isn't really a legal question. But it's been a long time.

It can take a while, depends on how busy your commander is, and the kind of chapter. It's not up to your mental health provider.

Is it legal for 20 yr and 15 yr old to be in a sexual relationship? Is it legal for them to just date and keep it nonsexual?

No, would not be legal to be in a sexual relationship. Just don't be in a relationship.