I'm not sure you mean "dead" as in DOA or as in "dead-bang easy" for the state. You confessed. To taking drugs the night before, and still being...

Received a double Parked ticket for dropping off passenger in Garwood, NJ

You can always fight a ticket. You need to figure what it's worth to you in time and effort vs. the puny charge.

Can someone on probation for felonies live with a convicted criminal who currently has active cases also?

Not sure what kind of help you're looking for. You've warned them, what else do you want from these fun-loving felons?

For a cop to talk about someones case thats still on going

Not only legal, it's part of the job description.

Is it illegal for my daughter to date someone of a different race?

You're in luck: there's a special exception for children of bigoted parents.

Whats the chance of a portion of a sentence being suspended @ the formal sentencing?

This is a question the defendant needs to ask of the defense attorney. If there is no defense attorney, then it's a fool's chance.

My son was charged with a class a misdemeanor for family violence. He is a criminal justice major.

You're right to worry about future job prospects with a domestic violence charge. He needs an attorney; if he can't afford one, one will be appointed.

What if someone told the cops they didn't want to press charges against me for making a threat, so that she could blackmail me?

Just get the hell out. She has no power to press charges for the prior incident, which police discounted. If it looks like she's going to confront...

Parole conditions

This is something only a lawyer can answer -- your lawyer. If you haven't got one yet, for the love of all that's gracious, get one.

If I suspect my homie is guilty of participating in gang activity, should I alert the fuzz? Or does that make me a snitch?

It makes you a target. If he's your friend, talk to him about your concerns.