No law I ever heard of that would prevent your neighbor from parking in any legal space on the street.

Can they aggravate a domestic violence charge if caught on parole

If he ends up convicted of a crime of domestic violence while on parole, yes, that may affect the parole.

You asked for a response "if you're interested." I would assume they're not interested, and look elsewhere.

How so I clear my name,and possibly get my property back

If there is a warrant for your arrest, related to the home search, the cops can likely keep your property as evidence until the case is resolved....

So I'm on probation for a DUI. I am done with everything but community service, can I go to jail for that?

Do the community service; why would you want to mess up your deal with the prosecutor for that? Get it done before your next court date.

I was arrested for missing a court date, but they never read me my rights during the arrest. Isn't that illegal?

It isn't illegal to fail to read Miranda rights under any circumstances. However, anything you say in response to interrogation while under arrest...

What happens if I continously forget to check the u.a hotline?

You're setting yourself up for revocation. Hire a friend to remind you, tie a string around your finger, set an alarm, but make the damn calls.

What steps do i take ?

Ineffective assistance of counsel is not grounds for a dismissal, but you can fire your public defender and beg, borrow, but not steal, the money...

Do I need to pay my ticket off first before I try and get my licence?

Go get your driver's license, and bring it with you to court, and the ticket will likely be dismissed.

How will my harassment charge play out? It’s my first offense. And I’m really nervous about the first court date

No need to be nervous about a first court date. If you haven't already got a lawyer, simply ask for a continuance to get one, then get one.