Got a ticket for "Not being licensed as a driver by the DMV of NC. How much trouble am I in?

You do need a defense attorney.

I have NEVER heard of a governmental agency asking third parties to change their own conduct so that an accused can live a certain way. You live...

Yes. And you did. You confessed to the conduct? Why does someone need a test to prove a charge that has already been confessed?

Would my fiance be eligible for probation?

Ask his criminal defense attorney.

What should you do after you get a Civil Demand letter?

I agree completely with my colleague.

Can I file bankruptcy on fines owed to the county collector for traffic fines?

Talk with bankruptcy counsel.

Can you get deported if your a resident?

Hire an immigration attorney!!

Can I be fired from my employer if convicted of a 4th degree felony?

Yes, you can be fired, unless you have an employment contract or a collective bargaining agreement that gives you special protection.

Will I get introuble for weed scraps in my carpet?

If you were charged, hire a criminal defense attorney.

Is there a waiver of some sort for dui classes due to financial hardship

Talk to a DUI defense attorney about getting your situation back on track.