If I give my addict husb $ for things while we are not living together for 8mo, will this be deducted from his share if divorce?

Glen is right here. Money earned during marriage is community property. You should look for a local attorney and get an action plan for your divorce.

I was wondering if a family law attorney from oklahoma, would be willing to answer questions from someone out of state?

Thank you for putting your needs in the title. Helping us to help you makes this forum work better for everyone!

Is there any financial help?

Lots of options here. Get a local attorney you can trust to help you understand them all.

I have had a temporary custody hearing, when does a final order come into place? Who makes that decision?

Alan is on point and i would chime in to echo that you should head back to court if the order is not being followed.

My husband of 18 years served me with divorce papers 3 weeks ago. I don't want the divorce but he wants to remarry.

I am sorry for your situation, especially during the holidays. Kevin is correct and you should hire a local attorney.

Should I go back to court

David is right here. If there has been a "substantial change in circumstances" as it appreas to be here, then you should act. Meet with a local...

My husband had filed for divorce in USA without my knowledge and had sent summons to a wrong address leaving no scope for me to

Jeff is right on this, I would chime in and recommend you look for a local attorney, you cant afford NOT to get help on this.

Can I get custody of my son?

Vanessa is right on this and I would chime in that I understand the problem with finding the balance between giving enough information to get a...

Can we get custody of my children?

I agree with Michael on this one. Get a local attorney asap!

I agree with George and suggest that you go through with the denial process