What are some options in my husbands domestic violence by strangulation case if I don't want to press charges but the state has?

You can be and should expect to be called as a witness against your husband since you are the victim. Taking the 5th only applies f you would say...

Can my 18 about to be 19 year old boyfriend get in trouble for having sex with a 17 year old (me)?

Both of my Texas colleagues speak and address this issue with volumes of wisdom and experience. Listen to it!!

As Mr. Rothstein indicates - you serve 2/3 of a City sentence.

Mr. IImanen give you a very details and thorough answer here. Heed his advice.

Child pornogrphy carries a range of jail time - you do not indicate and please DO NOT POST details on this website whether it was just possession...

What are his options at this point?

He needs a lawyer! There is much to consider here and a lot going on and the fact is he may very well be facing some time in jail as a result of...

Do they have enough to convict me

This is a matter best discussed with your lawyer and not here on a public website. No one here will have the necessary details and no one can tell...

I would concur with my Arizona colleague............

Will the judge show evidence? Especially since I don't want my mom to see it,she's going to be there in court with me?

The judge does not show evidence - that is the job of the prosecutor. If your mother is in the courtroom and the details of your case are...

Is it ever worthy to confess a crime to a watch commander?

Never a good idea to "confess" or talk to the police. They are not going to take the position " oh he really did not mean it" and let you go!! ...