I need a powerhouse attorney

Use the AVVO site's Find a lawyer tab to assist you in finding someone. You do not state if this is a federal case or a state case. If it is...

Will hiring a lawyer get a better result ?

You answer most of your own question. It is cost prohibitive to undertake a capital murder case on a pro bono basis. Mr. Wooldridge gives you...

Where on a trial transcript can I find the jury charge ?

The transcript goes in the order of the trial. Since the jury charge is given after all the evidence/testimony has been given - you should find...

What should I do? What can happen?

The situation you describe is often heard about and the consensus is that it is a SCAM to get you to pay money. Stay off line and find a real...

Is it ok for a 20 year old guy with a kid to date a 17 year old girl?

Age of consent in the State of New York is 17.

There is no average bail. Each case stands on its own and the factors that go into a judge;s decision have been amply cited by the other...

What can I do?

I agree with Mr. Nicholas and suggest you follow his very wise advice.

Is the right to a speedy trial the same in all states? Texas for EX.?

Start with his attorney and posing your question(s) to that person.

Can my probation be extended or converted to a civil judgment?

Entry of a civil judgment would be great - but not happening here in TX as Mr. Nicholas answers. Get it paid off - no one needs a lien.

Report the incident to the authorities - It is the DA's office that will ultimately decide whether charges should be forthcoming or not.