Do I need to change this court date based on Opposing Counsel's threats? Was this I & E filed untimely? Court GAVE me the date

There are a lot of issues here, so I suggest you contact an attorney to represent you.

You need to read your lease and see what you signed up for. Otherwise, call an real estate attorney to see what can be done.

How long does is typically take to see a judge, after filing for custody or a petition for paternity in family court in CA?

You need a family attorney as every court has different procedures that are technical and complicated

Is this the normal for a Lawyer

Sounds like there are some issues between you and your attorney. Make an appointment to address them

I have guardianship of my girlfriend son now her mother going for guardianship.

If you have a guardianship, which I doubt you actually do, the court makes the determination as to whom will be appointed. You need to see a...

In desperate need of help. About to be homeless over this

I would highly recommend you contact an attorney because this is not the forum for short answers to complicated issues.

I am trying to help a family member by purchasing a house.

Good idea for you to buy and rent to them. Bankruptcy courts are strict.

Can he file abandonment as soon as I leave?

Never a good idea to have an unwritten agreement. You need to hire an attorney and have something in writing.

I have custody of my son and ex-husband/father has visitation rights on weekends, a warrant has been issued for his arrest.

You need to see a family attorney. In Texas, child support has nothing to do with visitation

Does the judge keep track/write down everything that happens in court?

Some judges have notes in the file, others do not. You need to hire an attorney and they will lnow.