Can my case be reinstated and if so what form and/or what do I have to do?

You can file a motion to reinstate the case or you can file a new case. I would suggest hiring an attorney.

Is it better to try to amend my divorce decree to include a name change, or should I submit a name change request to the court?

You only have 30 days to amend a final decree in court. You will have to file for a name change.

How Can I cancel a Protective Order? Do I have to hire an attorney or can I do this myself?

Your lawyer has to file for a protective order i advise a good family lawyer

Divorce

You will need to file for divorce asap. Have him served.

He needs to be a resident of 6 months. Then you can file a petition to modify and move the case.

Does "Answer to Original Petition" means the defendant has filed an answer to my petition?

I would suggest you call an attorney and give your case number and most attorneys like me offer free consultation.

If a court ordered social study eval recommends the other parent take a psych exam, is it mandatory for final orders?

ASK your attorney to file motion for psch evaluation and have him set for hearing.

I want full custody or supervised visits or both, can I do my self or need lawyer?

You should hire a private investigator to first find where he is located. Then your attorney can have him served.

Can my ex wife force my 15 year old son to go back with her ?

When your child is over the age of 12 he or she can confer in the judge's chambers. I would suggest hire a lawyer most family lawyers like me offer...

How can the child mother give her away without telling the farther

Has the father given up the rights? Were there any previous documents filled. Most attorneys like me offer free consultation.