Can i get a passport for my son without his father signing it. my son is only 5 yrs old

Yes, if you have a written, notarized letter from the other parent granting you consent to apply for the child's passport. Or, If you can prove...

More information needed.

DO I SEND THE DEFERRED ACTION PACKET BY CERTIFIED MAIL?

I would agree. Then you will KNOW if and when received.

Will a traffic Misdemeanor affect Green Card Processing? We drove to CT a month ago from NJ, My husband is H1b holder.

No. There should be no issue.

O1 marriage to green card holder? Can I stay in US and become green card holder too?

I agree with my colleague.

How many days I can stay in USA , my H1B got revoked on 26th feb 2013 by USCIS.

30 days would be a reasonable time.

I filed for asylum in New York, in 2014 I have individual hearing and I got married 2 month ago, will I have regular interview

Stoke interview for sure.

My mom became a citizen when i was 15 but got married when i was 2 months am i a citizen too.

I agree with my colleague. More info is needed.

Should my wife work for at least three years before we can start the green card process.

No need for her to work for three years before filing. You will, however, need a co-sponsor.

Are there any risks for a US citizen having a DOD military clearance (TS/secret) signing a I-864 Affidavit/Support for an alien?

As a sponsor you have made a 10-year commitment to reimburse the government if beneficiary were to become a public charge.