How can father get custody of child and have himself named custodian when mother was, without going to court in Texas?

You need to hire a lawyer. A modification and/or enforcement may be in order.

What are chances of Dad getting custody of my 2 kids when older one turns 12?

It sounds like you have a good case but it will be a fight. Hire an experienced lawyer.

My Daughter was born of wedlock. Mom lives in MA Daughter School in RI Dad Tx

Talk to a lawyer in person about the past and present circumstances.

It would more likely be in the estates code, about qualifications for an executor. If a bind is required, a felon would have a hard time getting one.

Can I legally give up my visitation rights ? My daughter Kailey doesn't want to visit and I don't need the drama from the mom!

Hire a lawyer and enforce your order. You could have done that long ago.

Who should I talked to about the county jail that won't let have a visitation to see some one in jail?

Help him to hire a criminal defense lawyer to address the rights issue and the visit issue.

Do I need to re-pay for new forms if uncontested divorce has turned into contested

You probably don't need to re-file but you do need to hire a lawyer. You don't have the skills and experience you need.

Can CPS decide where my 16 year old son chooses to stay? I'm his mother, and he reported false/exaggerated accusations

You need to hire your own lawyer, ASAP.

If a person not yet named executor by a judge is spending money from the estate improperly what can be .done?

You should hire your own probate lawyer.

Divorce+ finding address of husband

You should hire an attorney to help you locate him an to help with service if you can not locate him.