What will happen to the minor kid if both parents died without a will, with no relative or friends in US?

This is far too hypothetical, it calls for a textbook on family and immigration law. Sit down with a lawyer, describe your situation and goals,...

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How will remaining of settlement be divided? How would I prove I'm his child if he's not on my birth certificate?

It depends. The payments might end at his death, depending on how the settlement was structured. Or they might get paid into his estate and...

What can I do beyond hiring an attorney which I cannot afford? Everyone is afraid to force the issue with the executor.

He's not the executor, and had zero power, until a court appoints him. Don't be afraid. Any of you can hire a lawyer and offer the will for probate.

Who gets my child if something happens to me?

The father is still the father. You can state a preference in your will, but parental rights are given a lot of weight. You might consider...

What kind of paper I need to get legal custody papers saying i still have legal custody of my kids

Probably just a revocation of the Power of Attorney. If you want more specific advice, talk to a lawyer who has read all the relevant documents...

Go see a probate lawyer. It is probably not as expensive or scary as you think. And it will clean things up so the house and car will be in your...

Will the geographical restrictions be removed?

The geographical restriction in the family court remains, no matter what your travel orders say. You and your wife knew about this when you made...

Can I file a QDRO without an attorney? If so where do I start to get the correct information?

Have your lawyer do the QDRO or use QDRO Services in The Woodlands. (Most lawyers outsource these because they are very tricky.)

What do I do now! How does probate work ??

Hire a probate lawyer. It is possible to probate the copy. But it's not a DIY project.

Hire a lawyer. Refusing to cooperate may not be your best strategy.