Divorce

This is way to complex to resolve without direct help from an attorney. (And it sounds like you will still be the parent)

How would I file for a special appearance?

Time to hire an attorney before this gets any worse for you. With a child involved and multiple states this is NOT a DIY project.

CHILD SUPPORT ORDERS

No way to tell you. Time to take everything to an attorney for review.

How long should it take for a child custody case to go to trial?

You need an attorney. If you cannot afford an attorney you need to apply for legal aid.

Do I have to pay child support or does she have to take me back to court to get it reinstated?

An answer to this question would require review of all relevant orders and documents. Sounds like there's a significant amount of money at stake-...

Is the non custodial parent obligated to take his children on their scheduled weekend?

Visitation is a right, not an obligation. There is no direct punishment for NCP not exercising time of possession.

The birth certificate does NOT resolve any legal issues. PLEASE go sit down with a Family Law attorney and sort this all out.

Who do I talk to about changing my child support review order??

Please go see an attorney. Some of these issues have a remedy. Many of these issues simply have no remedy and that is one of the costs of...

Should I have to pay for a ticket that my company is responsible for

If you got the ticket then you better deal with it or risk a warrant for non-appearance. That would hurt. Talk to a traffic attorney- these are...

Consumer law

They gave you the car they are probably stuck with the deal.