Call the police regarding criminal case and hire a family lawyer to declare the marriage void

It depends on his parole conditions when he is released

You are correct. If sh did not designate her weekend during your time she doesn't get a weekend. If she does not a weekend outside your month...

You and you boyfriend both need lawyers

You can't do anything except ignore her and keep a record of what she is doing

You probation should not be revoked. Do not just pay a fine. Take a short deferred on theft and they will dismiss it

You call all change your names as long you don't have criminal records.

He can't drop the charged the police may not of believed you

If you call the police he will be charged and will be a registered sex offender. You can agree to child support and visitation I do not think...

If your are only 3 years apart from you actual birthdates nothing will happen criminally