They can report her to the court and he bond could be revoked. It would be in her best interest to follow bond condtions.

You need to post this question under the state of OK.

If they find him dead no you won't lose your house. You need to try to find h.and have him surrender. I hope you hired him a criminal defense lawyer.

He could very well be charged with a crime.

He needs to go to court and get court order visitation

You can not charge her for emotional neglect, I appears that you are co dependent, Find a class that helps people that are codependent.

If the house is your homestead you can't sell it without her permission. You need to consult a lawyer. It sounds like the house is your separate...

The mother doesn't have to move back but the kids need to move back.

You can always do jail time. You may want to consult with a attorney and see if there a any loop holes in your case

No,under the current law you can't remove it.