Call a bondsman and they will be able to tell you if there is a warrant.

He may have jail time as a condition of probation

Four years. Offer them a small portion. If the debt and get a release.

You can't stop him from getting divorced. If you have minor children. You can get child support and you may be able to get as spousal support.

You need a lawyer. You also need the biological father to agree

You can't drop charges but you can talk to his defense lawyer and write a statement. The attorney can give it to the ADA .

Yes. If jury believes child you will be convicted. You need to retain a lawyer

Unless you committed fraud you can not go to jail. Call them and make a payment plan.

You did not state his violations. Depending on his violations he could be reinstated

You can't speak to the judge privately. You have to take the stand. Are you on medication. You need to talk to a medical professional and see if...