It depends on it you have probation conditions or parole conditions,

If you lived in the new sate for 6 months you might be able to file in your state.

No, you can get a trial by judge, No jury trial in child support cases/

If you are not happy with the lawyer retain a new lawyer, I have never seen this condtion placed on a drug case,

You can accept service you want to otherwise he has to get you personally served,

Retain a lawyer, If you dd not consent you may have a chance of suppressing the evidence

File for divorce and get injunctions,

Yes you can be charged but the state may not be able to prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt,

You did not ask a question but I will answer what I think you are asking, You can still be charged and you need a attorney asap Do not talk to...

If the house is in your name show them proof and the issue should be resolved .