If she goes to a jury trial she cannot get probation, The judge could give her probation . If she has mental problems she may end up at rusk.

Retain a lawyer .Your probation could be revoked,

You need to retain a lawyer, You can be charged with false police report,

Someone may be suing you in a civil case .

I dont know who they are, I would install cameras and catch it on a camera nest time

The officer may of misspoke or you did not hear him correctly, They can bump up a case to a felony .

Domestic violence entitles you to spousal support, Retain a lawyer,

Make a police report and they can call the ADA and see if they will accept charges

You both need to take a anger management class and stop planning on arresting a family member. If you have a job move out and get your own place.

The judge may want to admonish you for not completing with the conditions of probation