Do I have any recourse?

This seems to be a combination family law (marital property) and probate (will/intestate succession) question. You need to consult with your...

Can my Command or Commander say no because there is a therapist on base and I want to see a civilian one? Thank you!

You have the right to choose the healthcare provider of your choice. Your command does have an interest in you working during normal work hours,...

Can they deny a deferral of forfieture to defendants based on his ets date originally being in 2014?

Once your spouse is no longer in the Army, he is not entitled to receive pay or allowances -- the deferral only delays forfeitures as a result of...

Do I need to provide my Commander with a receipt for him to sign as evidence? Also, how much time should I give him to respond?

Mr. Cassara is correct -- since you are in the process of separation, you are likely flagged thereby prohibiting favorable personnel actions, to...

What is my first step in regards to getting the documents certified?

Your question is a bit unclear. Documents can be either notarized or certified. Certification generally happens when a court makes a copy and...

Can I, stop him from changing our join bank accounts information?

You need to speak to a divorce lawyer, either a civilian lawyer with military property experience, or a legal assistance lawyer in the military. ...

Transferred Post 9/11 GI Bill Benefits Considered Income to Calculate Child Support?

Mr. Cassara is correct -- you need a lawyer. Child support is based on income, and state law governs what is income. Generally courts take an...

Can they extend him for non-judicial punishment because of his contractual end date?

I think your question confuses two issues. A soldier cannot be extended beyond an ETS for an Article 15 -- However, based on your question, that...

Do we need a lawyer for this?

If an enlisted has not taken the second oath and shipped to basic training, they can get out of the Delayed Elnlistment Program. US Army...

Yes - make sure the commander knows you are pending the appointments -- start with your first line supervisor and work your way up.