Immigration, through the Department of Homeland Security, is not the moral police.

The process begins with the filing of an I130 followed by consulate processing. May take 6-12 months.

What can I put down as explanation. Can I tell USCIS that my wife refused to sign my documents?

Given the situation you are in, the responses you make going forward are critical to the success of keeping your green card. It is not possible to...

What are the chances I have to make it to that Oath Ceremony.

Information on scheduling is an internal management issue that does not include consultation with attorneys. Sorry, not something we can help with.

Is it OK to write a letter to AO who had denied my asylum claim?

Assuming you are not in any other status, your case will be forwarded to Immigration court where it will get a fresh look. If that fails you can...

What can they do to me? what should i do?

You have a very complicated set of facts that could result in very severe penalties if not handled correctly. In fact it is possible serious damage...

How much it will cost? What is the chances that they may denie my application of visa status change ? What forms to complete?

An ESL class does not qualify for F-1 status.

Is it possible to apply his EAD on our own without the lawyer's assistance?

You are permitted to apply for the EAD without representation.

Can a person qualify for unemployment benefits even when his work permit has already expired and his social was given with it?

This is not an immigration issue. Note too that social security has nothing to do with unemployment benefits which is a state issue.

Is the process of obtaining a green card through the adjustment of status the same to the same sex couples?

The process, benefits and requirements, are the same for everyone.