What do I do if it's been four months since my fathers death (I'm his only child) and my step mom hasn't let me see it?

I would also add that your mother can file an action as your next friend to compel production of the will if there is one. Once you turn 18 you...

What is the advantage of an irrevocable trust over a revocable trust.

It all depends upon your goals and the income and estate consequences of a particular path that you chose.

What happens if I am incapacitated when my child reaches the ages for distributions from my living trust (had I died instead)?

You need to check the terms of the trust. Typically distributions to children do not occur until after the death of the grantor.

Someone should seek guardianship over here so that a court will watch what the trustees are doing!

Do I need to contact the probate Judge for help?

You need to have your own lawyer in this matter. The longer you wait the further behind you are going to get.

How do I get my income tax freed up from net-spend-when it was oversight on their part

In addition to an accountant, a tax attorney may in fact be a better choice. Dealing with the IRS takes persistence and stamina.

Wrong estate address on Pet for Prob. Fully cycled probate in wrong county. Do we have to start over in new county? Implications

Attorneys are licensed by state. Go hire one.

And I will add to the prior answers that if it is anticipated that the poa might be used for home refinancing that it MUST be signed in an...

What is the procedure and forms needed to transfer a deed of inherited real property in my name?

The court order is generally filed in the real estate records of the county in which the court is. Nothing further is needed. I Would add that...

Probate/Estate distributions question..?

Typically all beneficiaries have to sign a receipt and release to get their share.