Is it important that I file first. if he file first the reason he gives may not be adultery. would that be a problem.

Even if he files first you can counter sue him and allege adultery. You will not give up any rights if he files first.

I'm I able to divorce him in Juarez and the divorce is recognized here, in the US?

You should handle your divorce in Texas. Contact a local attorney to assist you if legal aid will not.

If I file, how long is the process? Also, the divorce date will be the time of filing or when we appear before a judge?

There is a 60-day waiting period to get divorced from the date you file the petition. You are not actually divorced until the judge signs the order...

How should I handle moving retirement funds before I am married so that they remain separate property?

Anything you accrue prior to marriage is your separate property. Period. Anything accrued in those retirement accounts AFTER your marriage are...

Does this mean he only wants to do the same thing as I submitted "joint" but no exclusive rights for neither of us?

He is asking for same thing you are minus the designation of the "primary" conservator. You may be able to use that to your advantage later....

If I file for divorce in Dallas today will I have to stay in Dallas for the rest of my life? I have a child

The court cannot limit where you move, but they can limit where the child moves. Typically courts will impose a residency restriction to keep the...

Do I qualify for alimony? And can I file for child support without filing for divorce right now?

Unless there has been some sort of family violence, you will have to be married for 10 years to qualify for spousal maintenance. You need to...

There are way too many issues in here to discuss in this forum. You need to schedule a consult with an attorney and go over each of your options....

Can i used the waiver form tht was filled back in 2013 now?

If you filed for a new divorce, you cannot use the same waiver. You will need a new one. If you cannot find your spouse you may be able to service...

How long after finalized divorce do i have until i can get all my stuff out of his house?

Your decree of divorce should have designated when you could pick up your stuff. If it did not, and now he won't let you get it, you may have to...