Can I add a request for additional relief after the trial, but before written decision?

You can always try. The worst that can happen is that the judge says no

Who do I serve/request documents from in civil suit?

Your question is a little confusing, but you serve those on the attorney

Can I tk this lady to small claims court for damages if the fence that was taken down is on her property ?

Depends on the amount you are claiming.

It is apparent that no matter how I ask this question I can not get a understandable anwser.

Yes

I want a lawsuit & prove a commercial semi cause accident & should be held at fault instead of me for avoiding him & getting hit

Use Avvo to find a local attorney

Friend got hit at intersection turning left at yellow light by a truck that appeared to have slowed down but sped up and hit her

Dispute the citation.

Can I get reimbursed for the auto repairs after a not at fault accident through their insurance company? parts or labor?

Fair Market Value

I caused a car accident during work. picking up material. i get paid $.43 a mile. should my company pay the deductible.

Not enough info. But, if you were in the scope of your employment, your company is liable.

After a car accident where I was injured and not at fault, do I have to let the insurance companies 2 years past medical history

More facts needed. Hand it over to your insurance company

Not enough information here.