Get an attorney. This is far from an uncontested divorce, and your question shows that you are unfortunately out of your depth on the legalities...

Yes, a judge would base his/her decision on the admissible evidence presented to him/her. If you do not have counsel, you should get counsel...

You should read your Order carefully, or even consult with an attorney regarding that. You could always force the pick-up at your residence, if...

You don't say why you are unable to see your daughter. If you are subject to a protective order, temporary protective order, or other type of...

You would probably want to deed your interest to her in some form, via Special Warranty Deed or Quitclaim Deed. It would behoove you to discuss...

Based only on the information you have provided, you would file a Motion for Enforcement of those arrears, with a request that they be reduced to a...

Your question is a bit confusing. You indicate both that you do and do not want to cancel the existing child support arrears. If you sign an...

They can be looked at, yes. Your resources, as the obligee/receiving party, are usually not heavy factors in such a determination.

You could not get "backpay" retroactive to the date of your divorce. You could modify your order prospectively, but that is not a certainty. As...

You make valid points, and those are issues a court would consider. However, they are not determinative in themselves.