I'm getting my EB green card soon (I-485 is pending). I'm also getting married soon. Can I change careers?

Wait until gc approved through employmrnt or get your husband to file a separate application. Consult an attorney to advise you of the options....

How long it usually takes for the NVC to process F2A visa?

It depends on how hard they are working; if they say they have all your documents and which consulate you will be atteding for your interview.

Can someone help to get our life out of this darkhole?

We would need additional information. You could as a last resort sue the government to make a decision. This is called a writ of mandamus.

I have a question for anybody who might know. This is a long story so I will try to hit the highlights.

They charge for the application regardless not for approval

After the family based interview should I stay in school under my f1 visa??

Stay in school to be safe!

Wondering when I'll hear back from immigration regarding my interview decision.

Within a month

What immigration status should I put for my wife'

Talk to an attorney. There should be no issue

Changing from A2 Visa to E1

1. You only forefeit a visa when is E is approved 2. Depends on your application and sufficiency of provided docs 3. Yes.

You need to show more than 1 month of paystubs to prove lawful status.

Why ICE officer asking to submit a copy of Green card application and court decision after I file for Green card 3 months ago?

Ask your attorney. They are probably just verifying everything.