Land in mother's name and house was in my name and when deployed, spouse put name on house.

I agree that there are some holes that need to be filled in. You mention a POA, but POA for who? Did your spouse have a POA for you? For your...

Building barb wire fence

Not really sure what your question is. It sounds like the fence-line is outside of the survey. If this is the case, whose property is the fence...

Can my husband (bio father) and I relocate from Oklahoma to Nebraska?

Can mom take you to Court and stop the relocation? Yes. It sounds like she has taken active efforts to make herself clean and is trying to have a...

Can a non custodial parent who has supervised visitation due to drug abuse claim a child for food stamps and TANF?

You have an unfortunately common situation. The mother can't do this and, by doing so, has committed welfare fraud. You can report her, but it...

Am I entitled to know information about my children.

Your ex has sole legal and physical custody. This means that she alone has the ability to make medical decisions on their behalf. It also means...

Your ex has a reasonable expectation of privacy when she is in her own home. Apartment included. If she is not giving consent to be recorded, I...

How old does a child have to be in order to make a decision on who they want to live with in Oklahoma

It's usually at age 12 that a judge will consider the wishes of a child. That being said, it does not mean that the child will go where they want....

What can I do if my ex isn't very supportive of my relationship with my kid?

If you want to see your child I would suggest getting with an attorney to develop a plan of action. The Court will want to see a change in...

In order to file motion to modify custody, your ex would have to prove what we call a material and substantial change in circumstances. This...

my grandchild live with me for 3 years his mother has not had contact with us or him and two and a half how do I get custody

I agree. Your options are a guardianship or an adoption. I would suggest guardianship over the adoption, though. A guardianship can happen now...